For me, age matters a lot in a relationship. It’s not about pride or feeling too big, it’s just my reality. I find it hard to truly submit to someone I’m older than, no matter how mature he might be. I believe submission flows more naturally when I’m with a man I see as my senior, not just by title but also by age.
I know everyone has their own opinions, some say age is just a number, some say love is all that matters. And that’s perfectly fine. But for me, I’ve discovered my peace lies in respecting certain boundaries. Age is one of them.
So if you’re like me, please don’t let anyone shame you. Choose what works for you and build your relationship on what gives you comfort and peace of mind.